THINKING OUTSIDE THE BOX

Without communication you have nothing.

Without self-respect you will not be able to value anything.

If your world revolve around material things, you'll never understand the meaning of true beauty.

If you learn new things from watching television, you'll never see what nature is really has to offer.

If you are busy living in a fantasy world you will never see the light of reality.

If you want to change your atmosphere you need to change your way of living.

If you are used to people telling you what to do, then how will you ever learn to teach yourself?

If you accept lies over and over then you will start believing false advertisements.

Take time out and actually get to know yourself, ask your self what is that you don't like about yourself and things going on in your life that you are certainly in control of, and what exactly it is you are willing to do to change your situation?

ANYTHING IS POSSIBLE!!!!!!!!!

You just have to believe, and in order to see who you really are try stepping outside of the program and the mindset that you have been presented.

Lets unite as a UNIVERSE not just a country but the entire globalization!

THINK ABOUT IT AND YOU WILL FINALLY SEE THE LIGHT AND LIVE FREE FROM THIS DAY FORWARD.

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EARTHLINGS

I'm stunned about the childish conversations that occur when couples are experiencing technical difficulties.

I don't understand why individuals dismantle their significant other.

If you are having personal problems please work on your own problems.

If you really don't want to be involved with another individual feel free to let that person know.

Because later on down the road it's going to be confusion.

Us the people as the nation have to unite and stop treating one another like animals.

Our generation need to reform ourselves in order to make this world a better place.

Let's start seeing the reality side and not the way things appear to be.

Let's turn the violent things that they display on TV off and let's turn the violent music off.

Let's stop looking at things that's none educational.

Let's start growing together as a nation.

Let's heal the world with LOVE and stop crime on crime.

Let's get back to the basic and stop supporting and contributing to things that not benefiting us mentally, physically, spiritually, and emotionally.

STOP THE VIOLENCE, LOVE IS THE ANSWER!!!!!!!!!!!!

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THINK TWICE

Lesson of today!!!!!

I quote,"PLEASE STOP TELLING YOUR SO CALLED FRIENDS YOUR PERSONAL BUSINESS."

It's amazing how you think that you have a genuine person to talk too.

Not know that person is telling all of your business.

None of your secrets are being kept, because they are sharing your information with the world.

Some individuals just can't hold water, so think critical before you reveal certain things.

Especially if you are having relationship problems.

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STUBBORNNESS

Shopping around in Kroger earlier today.

There was this beautiful couple, standing in front of me as I was paying for my goods.

They were having a discussion about the night before the previous night.

The lady at the cashier told them that the total was fifty dollars even.

The male reached in his wallet and paid the full amount.

Before the lady gave them their receipt, she asked the gentleman if he were still attending the birthday bash party.

The gentlemen said," Yo, mommy what type of birthday bash?"

The lady replied," Isn't your name, Jason?"

The gentlemen answered," Yes, madam, do we know one another?"

The lady respond," I'm afraid, but yes I do know of you, Mr.Jason."

Jason replied," If you don't mind me asking, how do we know one another?"

The lady respond," You are the guy who my cousin is suppose to be dating, that's why I asked you were you going to the birthday bash."

Jason asked," Who is your cousin?"

The lady said," You might as well stop acting as if you don't know my cousin, you have been trying to build a family with my cousin."

Jason interrupted," Awwwwwwh! Sorry I don't have time for the nonsense."

The lady said, " It's cool just know that I will be telling Regina!'

Jason replied," Okay cool because I don't know anyone by that name."

The lady said." So you don't know, Re Re?"

Jason replied," Yeah I do but she is just a friend."

The lady said, " Okay, it doesn't matter because I already text her when I seen you enter the store so she is aware of it now."

Jason replied," Yeah Yeah Yeah!!!!!! Whatever your name is have a nice day."

The lady said," No!!!!!!!! I hope you have a nice day, loser!!!!!!!!"

Jason laughed and headed for the exit.

After I paid for my items I proceeded to my car.

Just so happened I ran into Jason, Regina and the side chick.

Regina asked, Jason." What's up with this?"

Jason said," Not now!!!!!!"

Regina replied," Whatever it is, I don't care just come and pack the rest of your things and leave my crib, as a matter of fact I will already have your things pack before you arrive."

Jason said," Cool, I don't have a problem with that."

The side chick asked, Regina," Can you please tell me whats going on?"

Regina replied," This is my newly ex-boyfriend."

The side chick said," Oh my goodness, Jason never told me he was dating anyone!!!!"

The side chick asked Jason, "please tell me that she's lying?"

Jason answered," Man!!!!!!!!! I don't have time for this childishness."

The side chick replied," What!!!!!!!! Are you serious right now? You got to be kidding me, Jason! I thought you were different, you lied just like the rest of them!"

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JUST A THOUGHT

It's funny how in the beginning of a relationship, your mate will tell you that they would never let anyone come between y'all companionship.

But as the relationship start to grow old in their eye's their entire demeanor change.

It used to be a time when you could share things with your significant other and now everything has to be kept silent, to avoid argument's.

It used to be a time where you could share your entire day with your significant other but things has switched all of a sudden.

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LISTEN TO YOUR HEART

I truly believe if a individual love you like they say they do then they would find time for you know matter the circumstance's.

If a individual alway's tell you that they are to busy to put time in for you then they couldn't care for you as much.

If you are arguing daily then it's not worth it because you suppose to be smiling daily and feel appreciated.

If you have been with someone over two years and they are not considering to marry you then it's time to explore your options.

If you are with a individual who can't consider your emotion's and feeling's, and you have gave them more then enough time to settle their differences, then maybe you are better off being that person's associate.

Never settle for a person who can't love you and only you.

You don't need someone apart of your life if they are still trying to find themselves and still confused about what they want out of life.

You don't need a person who don't eager growing with you as a couple.

You don't need someone that constantly point fingers at your mistakes.

If you are going through problems and your significant other don't take time to show you any companionship or compassion, I advise you to move on.

If you are with someone that try to make your confidence turn into low self-esteem then it's not unconditional LOVE.

If you don't connect with your significant other on more then just a sexual level, I advise you to consider someone that has more respect for you.

If you are in a relationship with someone who only speak of themselves then it's time to throw in the towels.

If you cry more then you smile throughout a relationship, I strongly believe that person is abusing you and taking you for granted.

If you are only a option and not a priority, I advise you to decline the confusion that's going to end up taking place down the road.

If you can never get in touch with the individual you are with, most likely you are being played like a fool.

There should never be a day that go by that you can't hear from the individual that you are dating, even if it's something as simple as I called to put a smile on your face, etc.

If your partner has cheated and you have forgiven them and their attitude towards you is if they don't care rather you are apart of their life, then maybe it's time to let it go.

I strongly believe that LOVE is the easiest thing that was ever created.

It doesn't take much energy to show someone that you really love them.

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EXPRESS YOURSELF

I received a call this morning asking for advice.

The caller asked me how should they go about telling this special someone how they feel about them.

I demanded that the caller give me more details.

The caller told me that they have been feeling this special someone for some time now, and they would love for things to move to the next level.

I told the caller if you have intense feelings for someone you should let them know.

The caller told me that they can't gain the urge to tell this special someone because their pride has over flowed the situation.

I told the caller it's best to listen to your heart then to let your mind lead you astray.

LIKE THE AIR YOU BREATHE

This individual asked me, how can I be part of the air that you breathe?

It took me by surprise because nobody ever asked me anything like that.

My response, are you asking to be in my life until the end of time?

The individual replied," Yes I would love to start a foundation with you."

At this moment I'm still stunned and speechless.

The individual added," Will you marry me?"

A conversation with my heart and brain begin.

My brain was telling me that this is to good to be true.

My heart was telling me that it's to soon for any of this to be taking place.

Now my only option is having faith in this individual or pass up the offer.

Because who wouldn't want true, loyalty, trustworthy, passionate, positive, and irreplaceable LOVE.

If you don't want true LOVE then something is seriously wrong.

Because without LOVE what's left.

My mind and emotions started speaking to me.

My emotions told me this could be your soul-mate.

My mind whispered," This individual don't know you well enough and want to take it to the next level."

So!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I'm lost and I can't make a decision.

My heart spoke," Please make sure this is the right individual because I'm tired of repairing the broken pieces."

I agree with my heart 100 percent.

I asked the individual, what are your intentions?

The individual replied," I want to treat you like the treasure that you are, I want to help your heart feel loved and not neglected, I want to be the shoulder you can lean on, I want to provide for you and the foundation that I would love to create with you, I'm ready to experience true love with you, I want to give my heart a chance to love like it never loved before, I want to give my heart what it has been longing for and that's you my LOVE."

The individual add," You are apart of my destiny and I can't complete my journey without you being the missing piece to the puzzle."

I stood and asked," How could I be for sure you are serious about what you are saying?"

The individual intruded," My LOVE, I know you have been hurt and I know a lot of people have walked in and out of your life, I know you have been mislead, I know you have been cheated on, I know you have been taken advantage of, I know your sweet tender love has been abused, I know you feel that you can't trust another, I know it's safe to say!!!!!!! I can't see myself without you, if you just open your heart and allow it to do the things that it suppose to do and that's to LOVE, I guarantee you want have any regrets."

I replied," YES YOU CAN BE APART THE AIR THAT I BREATHE."

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KARMA IS A MOTHER YOU KNOW WHAT!

Speaking on adultery!

Why wouldn't you just tell your better half that you would like to file for a divorce?

Are there any people that still hold the value of loyalty and respect?

Why would you agree to marriage vows and you know that you are not ready for commitment?

Why would you lead a person to believe you can be faithful?

Why are some individuals helping a married individual commit adultery, and they are aware of that person status?

Why break up a person happy home?

Why do individuals think it's okay to deceive?

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NEVER MISS A GOOD THING UNTIL IT'S GONE

I'm amazed by individual's that think it's okay to mislead their significant other.

When the road's intersect, then the deceiving individual always try to compromise.

It's to late to solve the problem, because your significant other has addressed that situation numerous of times.

It's more than welcomed to cheat on your significant other, until you find out they are following in the same footsteps.

Now that your significant other has moved on, finally your right senses has appeared, now you realize you have let a good thing get away.

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HOUSE GATHERING CONFUSION

I held a house party last night.

I called a few mutual friends over just to relax.

Some of my mutual friends told some of their friends, and so on.

But to cut to the chase somehow this chick that I have no background on, attended the gathering also.

I prepared beverages so everybody was enjoying themselves.

I had so much food that I had to dispose some of it.

My neighbor told me that he invited a few people also.

So 10 o'clock arrived the door bell ring.

I answered the door it was three men.

The chick that I didn't have any background info on asked if it was okay for her to use the bathroom, I told her yes.

Not knowing that one of the mutual friends was in the bathroom waiting on her to enter the bathroom.

30 mins after 10 the door bell rang again.

I opened the door it was two other guy's.

They came into the living room and grab a comfy area to relax.

While I was in the kitchen preparing drinks, I over heard one of the guy's asking about the BMW parked in the front yard.

Another voice replied and said, " Yo my man thats, Jessica whip."

The guy respond with a curious tone, " Jessica, who?"

Another voice said, " My co-worker, she's in the bathroom now."

The guy said," Oh okay!"

Another voice said, " She should have been out of the bathroom by now."

The guy asked," Where is the bathroom?"

I interrupted and replied, " Keep walking to your left, it's going to be the first door on the right."

The guy said," Thanks!"

I said,"No problem."

I heard loud banging on the bathroom door.

Then the guy said, " How long are you going to be in the bathroom?"

The chick replied," Just! One second."

The guy said," Jessica, baby is that you?"

Jessica replied," Huh?"

Next thing I know, my bathroom door was on the floor.

I rushed to see what was about to take place.

When I enter the pathway, Jessica and one of the mutual friends were nude in the bathtub.

The guy snatched Jessica out of the tub, and started kicking the mutual friend in the face hard as he could.

I screamed and said,"No!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Please stop."

And the guy's in the living room area came into the bathroom to get the guy off of the mutual friend.

They took him outside and told him to calm down.

The guy said," No I'm not calming down, she just cheated on me."

So I told everybody that the party was now over, it's time to leave!!!!!!

Jessica asked if she could spend the night over until in the morning.

I told her she would have to leave because I don't know her like that.

I said, " You are more than welcomed to sit in here until he leave."

Jessica replied," Okay, fair enough."

Finally the guy decided to leave after three hours.

Jessica thanked me for the visit, and apologized for the confusion she caused me to go through.

Before she left, she wrote out a one hundred dollar check for me to cover the cost for the damages her boyfriend vandalized.

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USED & ABUSED

Dating a individual who doesn't consider your feeling's.

Expressing your emotions, and giving your significant other all respect without a doubt.

Feeling as if you are speaking from your heart for no apparent reason.

Everyday you are arguing about simple things that could have been avoided.

Now you have came to the point, feeling it's best to go separate ways.

Face to face or over the phone, you have made your accurate thoughts be known.

Never seen or heard your significant other work hard to make you stay in their life.

But now that you are moving on, your significant other decides to consider your feeling's like never before.

You have been mistreated for some time, now your partner want to change their ways.

You never had any opposite friends, because you considered your mate feeling's towards that situation.

Now you have friends, and your partner is willing to give up all of their friends just to make you stay.

Constantly you are crying, begging your mate to give you their all not partial.

You heard your heart speak!!!!!!!!!!

Now that you have heard your heart, are you going to continue to follow your mind?

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LIVING A LIE

Oh my goodness, I was having breakfast at the Waffle House.

There was this middle age couple sitting across from me.

They were very affectionate with one another, to the point I thought I was watching a film.

As I glance out of the window there was this Jaguar pulling into the parking lot.

Getting out of the Jag was another middle age couple entering the restaurant.

The middle age couple across from me signaled them to come over in their area.

They all gave one another hugs.

So the chatter began, along with the laughter.

15 minutes passed by, and another vehicle entered the parking lot.

Entering the restaurant were two women.

One of the women appeared to be disappointed.

Before the waiter served me my order, the restaurant door snatched open.

The woman who appeared disappointed, approached the area where the two middle aged couples were sitting.

So proceeded and asked, "What's going on, Shane?"

Shane replied, " Baby it's not what it look like."

The woman with Shane said "Are you kidding me? It is what it appear to be."

The woman who appeared disappointed replied "Are you serious? Shane is my husband!"

The woman with Shane, said "He just proposed to me three days ago!!!!!!"

Shane was speechless.

His fellow friends decided they should leave.

Shane's, wife said "It's over with!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Now you can enjoy your new fiance."

Shane's, wife and her friend walked out of the restaurant got back into the vehicle and drove off, speeding into traffic.

Shane's, new fiance asked him why didn't he tell her that you were already married?

Shane replied, "I'll tell you later."

The new fiance said, "I need answer's now."

Shane remained silent, reached into his wallet and gave the waiter the money for their meal ticket.

The new fiance, said "I'm waiting."

Shane shook his head and walked out of the restaurant and stood by a Dodge Ram.

The new fiance follow his footsteps.

Seconds later they were exchanging blows.

The new fiance spit in his face.

He picked her up and slammed her vertebrate against the pavement.

The restaurant manager called the cops.

Within seconds the police arrived to arrest Shane.

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LOOK WITHIN STOP SEEKING THE OUTER APPEARANCE

It's hilarious because the majority of people seeking LOVE, only see the exterior of a individual.

Beauty is located by dissecting the outer image of a individual.

The majority never find love simply because numerous of mankind only seek the visual qualities.

Lets stop passing judgement against one another.

Lets take time to actually LOVE one for who they are.

Think twice before making poor decision because of appearance.

Overcoming the flesh is a big part of finding true LOVE.

Otherwise we will spend forever lusting after negative vibes.

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FACEBOOK STARTING RELATIONSHIP DRAMA

LOL, every time you are on this social network site the drama begins.

Everybody breaking up because of a Facebook.

Males and females going behind their significant other back trying to start up something possible with long lost friends or maybe something discreet.

People spending countless time on this social networking site spreading their business to people who they assume are their friends.

People taking slutty pictures just to get attention.

So is this really what the world have come down too?

Cyber world at it's best.

But, hey some people just love drama.

Facebook is a great place for it.

People in a relationship sending private messages to hide their wrong doings from their mate.

People advertising pretending to be more then what they really are.

Whatever happened to honesty and integrity?

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READY TO SETTLE DOWN

Is it best for me to back off?

Would it be better if I leave what I feel is priceless behind?

Should I recruit a new team, and alway's have in the back of my mind, will I ever find LOVE?

Is it wrong for me to tell you how I feel?

Is it fair for me to dedicate myself to you, knowing you aren't ready for what I have to offer?

Knowing my heart is delicate, but yet I still accept complications daily.

Should I be selfish and only worry about my feelings?

Is it fair for me to ignore your considerations?

Would you still love me if I wouldn't compromise?

You told me you were ready, but were your serious?

Do you wan't a woman, or a individual thats still finding themselves?

I want it all, are you willing to give it?

IS IT WRONG FOR ME TO WANT ALL OF YOU?

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PAY CLOSE ATTENTION TO YOUR MATE

Well, well, well!!!!!!! What do you know?

You thought you had a lover possibly a husband, in reality he wanted to screw your friend.

Played as if he had no interest in your associate's at all.

The entire time plotting future plans to be with your friend.

Telling you he love you, the whole time lusting after your friend.

You told him it was over, true colors revealed light.

Now your vision is clear, no longer blurred.

Felt as if you were having a nightmare, now that dream is discontinued.

He proposed, had you feeling like wifey.

Instead of taking care of home, he decided to purchase a new pair of Nike's.

Let his homeboys introduce him to a devotion of infidelity.

Called you baby in front of your family, around his relatives and associate's you were just another friend.

He only wanted sex, no true intention's of marrying you.

You gave him your heart which was home, and he still determined to destroy.

Now you are feeling worthless, but I'm here to tell you to keep your head up high.

You are a queen, like a treasure you should be cherished.

But yet he decided to treat you like trash, and dispose you.

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THERE WAS A TIME WHEN YOU WERE RESPECTFUL

How can you say you love a person, but you don't show them any respect?

It use to be a time when you would call daily.

You would show much compassion and affection.

You said we would never part.

Hey, but I guess thats life.

Things aren't always what they appear to be.

You said that you are not seeing anybody else, but you are never available anymore.

I thought I could trust you with my heart, instead you abused it like the previous individual's.

You wanted a foundation and stability.

You cried on my shoulder, saying you would never leave.

But, hey I see you aborted that mission.

Your words use to be like music to my soul.

Day dreaming smiling about the valuable moments shared.

Made you a priority, but you chose to select an option.

Communication was the bomb, exploded my brain.

Turned a lot individuals away because your love I was a sucker for.

A fool in-love, blinded by emotions.

Finally drove into a road block, now the signs are clear.

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CAUGHT UP IN A LOVE TRIANGLE

3:00 am I get a call from my long lost friend. She was huffing and puffing trying to grasp for air, so I told her to slow down and catch your breathe. She said,"nooooooooo I need for you to listen," I said okay! She said girl I been seeing three different guy's at once and my husband didn't know. I was like girlllllllllllllllllll, are you serious? She said, this is no time for games I need you to come and pick me up immediately, because my husband has all three of the men held at gun point. I said, "wait, wait, wait, waittttttttt well why are you calling me shouldn't you be calling the police? She said I'm scared to call the cops because all of them are currently on probation. Before I knew it I heard a loud noise, POW POW POW POW then my friend and the three men started screaming. So I'm thinking to my self damnnnnnn, is this real or I must be dreaming. So I got up to wash my face and brush my teeth, I came rushing back to the phone and I heard a heavy voice saying YOOOOOOOOO chill partna I didn't know your girl was married. Her husband said, " so how long have you been seeing my wife. " The heavy voice replied," I been fucking your wife for 6 years." Her husband said, " okay!!!! and asked one of the other men, how long have you been seeing my wife." One of the other dudes said," for real for real me and shawty been kicking it for 10 years now." Her husband replied," 10 yearssssssssss me and her been married for 4 years." He asked the other cat," How long have you been with my wife? The third guy said, " To be honest my man I just met your wife at a swinger's club, she approached me and said she wanted to try something new, so I told her cool I'm down for whatever. Her husband said," so baby is this true?" She said," My hubbie I am so so so sorryyyyyyyyy I should have told you that I was into trying different sexual practices with different men." The husband said," why did you bring them to my house?" She replied," I thought it would've turned you onnnnnnnnnn baby honestly." The husband said," Do I look like a homo?" She said, " Yes actually you do that's why I married you, because I thought you were into exotic role play with opposite gender's." Her husband replied," you are obviously insane, pack up your belonging because this house is no longer your residence." She replied," Okay I was leaving you today anyway, by the way the divorce papers are waiting for your signature on the dining room table." He said," oh my goodness I know, you just didn't!!!!!" She replied," did you just say what I think you said!!!!!!!! I knew you wasn't letting me finger your anus for no apparent reason tehehehehehehehehe, come on fellas we out of here." The dudes replied, " hell we been waiting on you."

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UNPROTECTED SEX/ORAL GRATIFICATION

ASK YOURSELF, ARE YOU STILL WILLING TO HAVE UNPROTECTED SEX/ORAL GRATIFICATION WITH YOUR SIGNIFICANT OTHER, EVEN AFTER THEY HAVE STEP OUTSIDE OF THE RELATIONSHIP? I HONESTLY THINK YOU NEED TO TAKE DEEP CONSIDERATION DEALING WITH THIS TOPIC. I ADVISE YOU TO PROTECT YOUR HEALTH AT ALL TIMES BECAUSE A MALE/FEMALE WILL TELL YOU ALL THE THINGS YOU WANT TO HEAR. SOOOOOO, I WAS TALKING TO THIS CHICK THE OTHER DAY AND SHE SAID SHE HAS BEEN FEELING REALLY SICK LATELY. SO I SAID CAN YOU GIVE ME A DESCRIPTIVE EXPLANATION, SHE SAID YES, I WAS FEELING SO DOWN LAST MONDAY SO I DECIDED TO GO TO THE HOSPITAL. SHE STATED THAT THEY GAVE HER A PHYSICAL CHECKUP AND WHEN THE RESULTS WERE REVEALED THE DOCTOR TO HER TO SIT DOWN AND LISTEN VERY CLOSELY. SHE PROCEEDED AND SAID THAT SHE HAS BEEN DIAGNOSED WITH ACQUIRED IMMUNE DEFICIENCY SYNDROME BETTER KNOWN AS AIDS.

THIS IS NOT TO SCARE ANYONE JUST BEWARE OF THE PEOPLE YOU ARE TRUSTING WITH YOUR HEALTH/LIFE.

PRACTICE SAFE SEX AT ANY GIVEN TIME, IF YOU HAVE ANY FEEDBACK PLEASE FEEL FREE TO LEAVE A COMMENT.

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HE WANT HIS CAKE AND ICE CREAM

Most men feel that they are a loser if they can't have two or more chicks at once. Men want a main chick/woman that they can call their own, basically she is his bread and butter. Men also want the outside women who they can experience new things with to satisfy his alter-ego. Most men start deceiving their main chick/woman because they are not pleased or fulfilled in a particular area in the relationship. Some men or just selfish, stubborn, or self-seeking and they feel having different women on the side will resolve their problem. Most men cheat because they are easily pure pressured, some are just unfulfilled with a desire need.

I believe low self-esteem have a huge role in men that want everything to go their way. Some men just have a trust issue and they are not willing to open their heart to one woman. Then again some women allow men to mislead them, thats why the majority of men continue to cheat.

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Once a cheater, alway's a cheater?

Do you actually believe a person can change? Anything is possible, but you have to be willing to accept that individual imperfections. If you don't feel you can forgive that person, then maybe it's time to move on with your life. I think some people learn from their mistakes and are determined to change certain bad habits. If you are in a relationship and your significant other has cheated on you numerous of times, you forgave them so that they can work towards amending their faults, and they are still deceiving then you are being taken advantage of. If the trust is gone then it's time to recruit a new partner/mate.

I believe people cheat because it have something to do with characteristic's. If a person have made up in their minds they are going to cheat then you can't change that. It's easy to say you will never cheat again, but are you willing to put the words behind and allow your partner to see the progression? Some people make entirely to many excuses about their decision making when it comes down to cheating. I have heard men say things like, well if a man tell you he will never cheat on you he is lying, or if man say he will always be committed to you then he is lying. Vice versa I have heard women say, well most women are faithful until they find out you are cheating, or women only cheat when they are vulnerable. Regardless of the matter cheating is still wrong and people will always try to justify their deceitful doings.

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Communication/Relationships/Cheaters all in the mix

~Pursuing a healthy relationship~

In recent studies communication has been known to help one understand how another individual is feeling. If you don't have communication, how do you expect your relationship to work? Hmmmm, think about it for a minute! Interesting because most relationships don't last if you don't have a understanding amongst one another, wouldn't you agree? If you don't compromise with your significant other, how do you expect it to work? Easy if there isn't any interaction when it comes down to your chemistry level then you may been heading into a thing called "INFIDELITY," Yes I said you might be heading down a road for a disaster. Nobody wants a head on collision, why? because that can be dangerous.

Example(s):

~Someone can end up getting hurt.

~In some situations it can lead to death.

~Diseases can easily be encountered.

~It may result in the end of a relationship

Those are just a few view points. Now lets talk about cheaters, I know it's wrong and also unfair to the individual thats being taken for granted. Most people who cheat are selfish, insecure, and may have some serious issues going on. The main start up line for the cheaters who are caught in their action use things like the examples below:

~I thought you were cheating, so I cheated

~You don't show me any affection.

~You are always going out with your friends

~You don't have time for me anymore.

~You always making a big deal out of something thats so simple.

~I messed up, I'm not going to do it anymore.

~I don't care about them, I love you.

~We are just friends, why are you tripping?

~That's my cousin.

~Thats my ex, it's not like that!

~Trust me you are over reacting.

~I'm so sorry, I was going to tell you.

Then you also have the cheaters who alway's say that their cell phone has been experiencing technical difficulties when they don't answer your call or they don't text you back.

Example(s):

~I was sleep.

~My friend had my phone.

~I was at work.

~I got locked up.

~My phone was dead.

~I broke my charger, so I couldn't charge my phone.

~I put my phone on silent, and didn't realize it was still on silent mode until I heading to work.

~I left my phone at home.

~I had the radio volume turned up.

~I lost my phone.

~I been out networking, I couldn't talk.

Now here is where the communication play a big part of the picture. If you tell your significant partner/other in the beginning your valid background then it will help solve all of the complexing problems. When you lie about something eventually it's going to come back and haunt you in a long run. When you tell the truth from the beginning, you wouldn't have to worry about future altercations. Misleading your significant other can be dismantlement, causing the other individual to lose interest, trust, or faith.

When two individual meet it's easy to create a bond that will most likely end up in a relationship or you may end up dating. Relationships are fulfilling in so many different areas, the energy and electricity the atmosphere surround and create. You can love, learn, grow, share goals, dreams, imaginations, investments, etc.

Now that you know communication plays a huge part in creating a healthy relationship. Before you decide to deceive another individual, think twice before letting your actions take place.

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