UNPROTECTED SEX/ORAL GRATIFICATION

ASK YOURSELF, ARE YOU STILL WILLING TO HAVE UNPROTECTED SEX/ORAL GRATIFICATION WITH YOUR SIGNIFICANT OTHER, EVEN AFTER THEY HAVE STEP OUTSIDE OF THE RELATIONSHIP? I HONESTLY THINK YOU NEED TO TAKE DEEP CONSIDERATION DEALING WITH THIS TOPIC. I ADVISE YOU TO PROTECT YOUR HEALTH AT ALL TIMES BECAUSE A MALE/FEMALE WILL TELL YOU ALL THE THINGS YOU WANT TO HEAR. SOOOOOO, I WAS TALKING TO THIS CHICK THE OTHER DAY AND SHE SAID SHE HAS BEEN FEELING REALLY SICK LATELY. SO I SAID CAN YOU GIVE ME A DESCRIPTIVE EXPLANATION, SHE SAID YES, I WAS FEELING SO DOWN LAST MONDAY SO I DECIDED TO GO TO THE HOSPITAL. SHE STATED THAT THEY GAVE HER A PHYSICAL CHECKUP AND WHEN THE RESULTS WERE REVEALED THE DOCTOR TO HER TO SIT DOWN AND LISTEN VERY CLOSELY. SHE PROCEEDED AND SAID THAT SHE HAS BEEN DIAGNOSED WITH ACQUIRED IMMUNE DEFICIENCY SYNDROME BETTER KNOWN AS AIDS.

THIS IS NOT TO SCARE ANYONE JUST BEWARE OF THE PEOPLE YOU ARE TRUSTING WITH YOUR HEALTH/LIFE.

PRACTICE SAFE SEX AT ANY GIVEN TIME, IF YOU HAVE ANY FEEDBACK PLEASE FEEL FREE TO LEAVE A COMMENT.

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Once a cheater, alway's a cheater?

Do you actually believe a person can change? Anything is possible, but you have to be willing to accept that individual imperfections. If you don't feel you can forgive that person, then maybe it's time to move on with your life. I think some people learn from their mistakes and are determined to change certain bad habits. If you are in a relationship and your significant other has cheated on you numerous of times, you forgave them so that they can work towards amending their faults, and they are still deceiving then you are being taken advantage of. If the trust is gone then it's time to recruit a new partner/mate.

I believe people cheat because it have something to do with characteristic's. If a person have made up in their minds they are going to cheat then you can't change that. It's easy to say you will never cheat again, but are you willing to put the words behind and allow your partner to see the progression? Some people make entirely to many excuses about their decision making when it comes down to cheating. I have heard men say things like, well if a man tell you he will never cheat on you he is lying, or if man say he will always be committed to you then he is lying. Vice versa I have heard women say, well most women are faithful until they find out you are cheating, or women only cheat when they are vulnerable. Regardless of the matter cheating is still wrong and people will always try to justify their deceitful doings.

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Communication/Relationships/Cheaters all in the mix

~Pursuing a healthy relationship~

In recent studies communication has been known to help one understand how another individual is feeling. If you don't have communication, how do you expect your relationship to work? Hmmmm, think about it for a minute! Interesting because most relationships don't last if you don't have a understanding amongst one another, wouldn't you agree? If you don't compromise with your significant other, how do you expect it to work? Easy if there isn't any interaction when it comes down to your chemistry level then you may been heading into a thing called "INFIDELITY," Yes I said you might be heading down a road for a disaster. Nobody wants a head on collision, why? because that can be dangerous.

Example(s):

~Someone can end up getting hurt.

~In some situations it can lead to death.

~Diseases can easily be encountered.

~It may result in the end of a relationship

Those are just a few view points. Now lets talk about cheaters, I know it's wrong and also unfair to the individual thats being taken for granted. Most people who cheat are selfish, insecure, and may have some serious issues going on. The main start up line for the cheaters who are caught in their action use things like the examples below:

~I thought you were cheating, so I cheated

~You don't show me any affection.

~You are always going out with your friends

~You don't have time for me anymore.

~You always making a big deal out of something thats so simple.

~I messed up, I'm not going to do it anymore.

~I don't care about them, I love you.

~We are just friends, why are you tripping?

~That's my cousin.

~Thats my ex, it's not like that!

~Trust me you are over reacting.

~I'm so sorry, I was going to tell you.

Then you also have the cheaters who alway's say that their cell phone has been experiencing technical difficulties when they don't answer your call or they don't text you back.

Example(s):

~I was sleep.

~My friend had my phone.

~I was at work.

~I got locked up.

~My phone was dead.

~I broke my charger, so I couldn't charge my phone.

~I put my phone on silent, and didn't realize it was still on silent mode until I heading to work.

~I left my phone at home.

~I had the radio volume turned up.

~I lost my phone.

~I been out networking, I couldn't talk.

Now here is where the communication play a big part of the picture. If you tell your significant partner/other in the beginning your valid background then it will help solve all of the complexing problems. When you lie about something eventually it's going to come back and haunt you in a long run. When you tell the truth from the beginning, you wouldn't have to worry about future altercations. Misleading your significant other can be dismantlement, causing the other individual to lose interest, trust, or faith.

When two individual meet it's easy to create a bond that will most likely end up in a relationship or you may end up dating. Relationships are fulfilling in so many different areas, the energy and electricity the atmosphere surround and create. You can love, learn, grow, share goals, dreams, imaginations, investments, etc.

Now that you know communication plays a huge part in creating a healthy relationship. Before you decide to deceive another individual, think twice before letting your actions take place.

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