Thursday, June 10, 2010

Once a cheater, alway's a cheater?

Do you actually believe a person can change? Anything is possible, but you have to be willing to accept that individual imperfections. If you don't feel you can forgive that person, then maybe it's time to move on with your life. I think some people learn from their mistakes and are determined to change certain bad habits. If you are in a relationship and your significant other has cheated on you numerous of times, you forgave them so that they can work towards amending their faults, and they are still deceiving then you are being taken advantage of. If the trust is gone then it's time to recruit a new partner/mate.

I believe people cheat because it have something to do with characteristic's. If a person have made up in their minds they are going to cheat then you can't change that. It's easy to say you will never cheat again, but are you willing to put the words behind and allow your partner to see the progression? Some people make entirely to many excuses about their decision making when it comes down to cheating. I have heard men say things like, well if a man tell you he will never cheat on you he is lying, or if man say he will always be committed to you then he is lying. Vice versa I have heard women say, well most women are faithful until they find out you are cheating, or women only cheat when they are vulnerable. Regardless of the matter cheating is still wrong and people will always try to justify their deceitful doings.

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  1. Hey Cuz I think alot of mens and womens need to read this to get some understanding about cheating. WELL SAID...........